Human Sexuality

How To Improve Your Sex Life

2007-10-17T10:47:00.001-07:00

So is your sex life suffering from the pain of boredom as well? Is it that no matter what you do it seems like the same old thing? Well as human beings we have built that way. If we are doing too much of the same thing than getting bored from it is very normal. So what can one do to heat up his sex life? Read on to find out some of the best ways to improve your sex life and achieve the desired results.
Experiment- Sex life normally gets boring for people who are not willing to experiment much with it. You can always try something new now and some different tomorrow. Unless you come up with new things each day sex is bound to be boring.
What's wrong with a little porn- This is one of the best ways to improve your sex life and bring the magic back in it. There's nothing wrong with watch porn together with your partner and follow the exact same steps. Most adult movies have some of the best tactics and ways to perform in bed and keep the magic alive. Therefore it is always better to watch porn and learn from it if you don't know what new to do in bed tonight.
Try role play- Another good way to improve your sex life and bring the magic back in the bedroom is to try foreplay. Foreplay is basically dressing up and fulfilling your partner’s fantasies. Every human being has secret fantasies and so would your partner therefore it's always good to discuss it with your partner before hand and there is nothing wrong with playing your partners fantasies if that helps add that extra spice in bed which would eventually lead to an improved sex life for you.
What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman’s mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say. They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to discover some of the most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know- 9 Most Shocking Secrets Women don't want men to know

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Everything You Always Really Wanted To Know About Sex

2007-10-17T10:45:00.000-07:00

Although you may think you are an expert on sex, there is still a lot you don’t know. Men in general think that because they may have had a lot of sex that they are now the foremost experts when it comes to everything about sex. However, with so much to know it is hard to keep up with the times. Research and science, even when it comes to sex, is constantly changing and therefore there is plenty of new information available that men simply do not know.
The first thing that you need to know is about premature ejaculation. You may be embarrassed if this happens to you. You may even think you are the only one, but it isn’t true. Up to 30% of men having active sex can have a premature ejaculation. This may only happen once or it may happen frequently to you, but you should know that when it does happen it is perfectly normal. The way to combat premature ejaculation is through Kegel exercises that keep your erection stronger for a longer period of time without ejaculation because you have more control of it. You can also try using thicker condoms which dulls the sensation so that you can go longer as well. Lastly you may want to work on your start and stop technique that works for a lot of men.
The second thing that you may not know is that you can actually have multiple orgasms. Although you may think this is only for women, but it is for men too. Orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things. You can have multiple orgasms without ejaculation, letting you orgasm over again without waiting in between. It isn’t the easiest thing for your body to learn, but with a little work, you can learn how to do it so that you get the same feeling over and over again.
Another thing you may have always wanted to know is that the size of the male penis is much smaller than you think. Because men are so impacted by the size of penises on porn movies, they often think that it is the size that all men should be. However, the average penis is usually between 5.1 inches and 5.7 inches. Along with the size, many men think that it is important to be the longest that they can be. But that isn’t what women really want. Women are more interested in girth then length because that is what is going to hit the wall of the vagina making it feel more stimulating then just having a long penis.
Most men also think that aphrodisiacs really work, but in reality they fail miserably for the most part. There are some genuine libido boosting products on the market that give you longer orgasms, increased semen, and faster recovery time, most are just a bunch of pills that do not do anything for your libido. Many of the food aphrodisiacs that claim they can change a person’s sex life are pretty much bogus as well. If food really had that kind of effect then everyone would be eating it all of the time.
Finally, the last think you should know about sex, is that it is not only a form of exercise but it has health benefits as well. It relieves stress, and burns extra calories. It even reduces mortality rate in men if they have sex frequently. So, go ahead and enjoy it, because at the same time it is giving you pleasure, it is also making you healthier.
In addition to these tips, you may want to explore all-natural supplements that have been proven to increase one's libido and sex drive. For men: VigRX Plus and for women: Provestra

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How To Have Amazing Sex

2007-10-17T10:42:00.001-07:00

Sex can be a problem for some people, and not because they aren't getting any, but because when they do they don't perform very well. So here's some tips to help you become not just good at sex, but amazing at sex...
Sex Tip 1
Learn as many positions, techniques and sex tricks as possible. This is because you must be unpredictable during a sex session to get your partner as sexual aroused as possible. If you are predictable then this equates to boring. Spice up what positions you do and what rhythms you use.
There's nothing worse about sex than boring predictable sex.
Sex Tip 2
You simply must learn the art of being able to build up sexual arousal in your partner from beginning to end. If your partner is less turned on towards the end than they were near the beginning then there must be something wrong. Perhaps things got too predictable...
Sex Tip 3
It doesn't matter how attractive or how 'big' you are, but what does matter is that you are sexually confident. There is not much worse than someone who is shy and insecure during sex. It's irritating. So learn as much as you can about sex, lighten up sexually and go for it! Try and get as much pleasure as possible for both yourself and your partner and you won't go far wrong.
You have learned the fundamentals on having great sex. There is more advanced information about sex techniques and tricks that you should try to learn as well to improve your sex game.
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The True Secret To Great Sex

2007-10-17T10:36:00.000-07:00

Really great sex isn't always the norm, but very good sex all the time can be. What most sex therapists neglect to tell their patients is that sex isn't just a series of positions or techniques. Really good sex is an expression of love between two people. This is why anonymous or random sex is rarely satisfying. People in new relationships understand the value of romantic love intertwined with powerful sexual interaction, but this can be the case for partners who have been together a long time.
The fundamentals are still important! Remember to vary your experiences; new places, different techniques, etc. Yet, don't leave out the most important factor - love! Romance and seduction are important to both partners. Sincerity and a willingness to be completely vulnerable to your partner should be mixed with an assertive energy during sex. This reveals itself in a complex play which involves one partner energetically pleasing the other, then the other reciprocating. The ebb and flow is then resolved with a mutual exchange of energy and pleasure which ideally will result in mutual orgasm.
Many couples achieve this dynamic by taking time to manually or orally pleasure their partners in turn, then come together. Sex cannot become routine or it loses it's specialness. A famous writer once had a torrid love affair in which the greatest night of passion was repeatedly interrupted by important phone calls. After resolving the emergencies, he would leap back into bed and continue with the most rapturous sex. Asked why a short-term affair in an old hotel accompanied by repeated interruptions by telephone calls created such wonderful sex memories, he remarked: I was in love! - and that really is the answer to great sex; being in love.
Keep yourself healthy, attentive and interested in expressing your love physically, and a very active and very satisfying sex life is very possible.
Daniel Walch publishes articles on business and psychology. See his blog "The Men's View" at http://themensview.blogspot.com/